00:10:46 KARIN MYRON: We are missing Lisa 00:10:46 Greg Herbert: Hello 00:10:47 Donna Martinez: Good morning from Frisco, TX! 00:10:50 Rodney Cox: Hello from Longview, TX 00:10:53 Jackie Whittington: Hi everyone! 00:10:55 Connie Wilkinson: Hello 00:11:00 Mary Ellen Burger: Good morning from Sunny Las Vegas. NV Temp is supposed to hit 80s today! 00:11:03 Connie Wilkinson: I'm new 00:11:10 Greg Herbert: Returning from a long layoff 00:11:10 Joshua King: All 5 coaches are here! Welcome Back Lisa 🙂 00:11:10 Donna Johnson: Good Morning from Caldwell, ID 00:11:12 Donna D'Amato: 2nd time! 00:11:14 Joy Wells: Greetings from Greenville, SC! 00:11:14 Loretta Young: Hello new timers! 00:11:16 Sherri Martin: Good Morning from Pegram TN! 00:11:19 Alisha Haywood: Welcome newbies 😊 00:11:21 Jason Roelofs: Hi from San Antonio, TX. Real Talk Rookie here 00:11:22 Alex Russell: I am a real talk rookie lol 00:11:28 Mary Bibb: hello from near ST. Louis, MO 00:11:29 Yesenia Sexto: 2nd time here, from Central Florida. 00:11:31 sybil alden: Hi Guys 00:11:43 Jody Fayman: Buckle in Coaches. It looks to be a bumpy ride. 00:11:44 Dorine Scribnerset: Hello from Tishomingo, OK! 00:11:45 Donna Martinez: 2nd time 00:11:46 Daniel Reeder: Hello! 00:11:47 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Let’s face it, we don’t have rails! 00:11:47 KARIN MYRON: Old Timer in more ways than one 00:11:49 Rickey Herrington: @Donna Martinez, I am in Frisco as well. 00:11:49 Joe Dunham: First time attending. 00:11:51 Ute Galloway: Repeat offender. lol 00:11:56 Danny O'Very: First Timer! 00:11:57 Clark Roush: 2nd Time 00:11:58 Donald Farrey: 1st time for me 00:11:59 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Welcome Y’all! 00:12:01 Missy White: First time from Atlanta! 🙂 00:12:01 Karen Briones: First TImer! 00:12:04 Jay Hamilton: Not my first rodeo 00:12:04 Joshua King: Nth time. I lost count 🙂 00:12:04 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Hello this is Nadine from NYC - First new timer 🤣🤣🙏🏽 00:12:05 Jeff Shumate: First new timer :) 00:12:08 Denise Konkol: Might as well be…it’s been almost a year,,,, I’m a prodigal 00:12:10 Mark Roth: 3rd time 00:12:12 Rose Mery: First Timet 00:12:15 Kevin Amacker: Veteran of many of these. 00:12:15 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Welcome all Y’all timers... 00:12:17 Cindy Murphy: Multi-timer 00:12:19 Melissa Knowles: 1 year in!!! 00:12:23 Julia Haller: 2nd timer 👋 00:12:23 Beth Hedrick: So happy to see Lisa! It's not the same when you're gone 🙂 00:12:25 Tom Weddle: 1st time from Portland, OR 00:12:26 Kevin Lewis: Just completed the Financial Coach Mastery Course 00:12:27 Rebecca Parker: 2 timer 00:12:37 Ashlee Richards: I'm becoming grandmothered in 00:12:38 Greg Herbert: Must keep some sanity 00:12:41 James Kinyanjui: JK from Charlotte, NC 00:12:50 Mark Crader: Greetings and welcome all new coaches!! 00:12:51 Dennis Chappell: Hello from Raleigh, NC!! 00:12:54 Natalie Kaibel: Happy Wednesday from KC! 00:13:08 Kevin Lewis: Hey Dennis. I am in Sanford 00:13:17 Heather McLelland: Hey, y’all greeting from Heather in Winnipeg, MB Canada 00:13:26 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: Real Talk is mostly about you. And Us. As coaches. 00:13:37 Mary Bibb: anyone who would be willing to meet and practice DebtFreeIsTheWay2Be@yahoo.com 00:13:38 Rebecca Parker: Hello from Texas Panhandle. 00:13:50 Kimberly Watt: Heather M, My grandmother was born there. Cool. 00:14:16 Dennis Chappell: Kevin...Welcome! 00:14:32 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Can we share LinkedIn? 00:14:46 Amber Urbina: woopst hanks Les! 00:14:51 Yesenia Sexto: Hello everyone! 00:14:54 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: The Send switch to panelists. Very annoying 🤣🤣 00:15:03 Connie Wilkinson: hello everyone! 00:15:04 Ute Galloway: @Les Nienow we love you 00:15:41 sybil alden: love the song 00:15:42 Denise Konkol: Hey now… love that version... 00:15:46 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: No need to cover The Sound of Silence. 00:16:00 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: @Nadine, you can share e-mails and share LinkedIn from there. 00:16:01 Genia LaRue: That’s typical. Lisa is the peaceful one. She has to be…😅 00:16:02 Daniel Perez: Hot take: disturbed did it better haha 00:16:04 Joshua King: Invitation To Understanding 00:16:06 Natalie Kaibel: Listening! 00:16:08 Jody Lamb: when to stop talking and listen 00:16:08 Joe Dunham: Listen more 00:16:09 Jody Fayman: Listening not talking 00:16:09 Claudia Johnson: Talk less 00:16:09 Amber Urbina: what was the song? 00:16:09 Mary Bibb: embracing the silence 00:16:10 Joy Wells: Listening 00:16:11 Donna D'Amato: Not talking! Listening! 00:16:11 Karen Bowman: Listen more - talk less 00:16:13 Tammy Tisdell: awkward silence 00:16:14 Denise Konkol: Listening and knowing when to speak up 00:16:14 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: @ChrisRussell, I’m keeping my mouth shut! 00:16:15 Claudia Johnson: Listen more 00:16:16 Ute Galloway: how to raise your dragon 00:16:16 Sandra Koehler: Silence as a powerful tool! 00:16:16 Kimberly Watt: using silence 00:16:17 Daniel Reeder: Listening 00:16:17 Stephen Gallagher: listening 00:16:17 Dorine Scribnerset: The sound of silence 00:16:18 Dennis Chappell: THE Sounds of Silence!!! 00:16:20 Connie Wilkinson: listening 00:16:20 Jason Roelofs: New coaches? 00:16:21 Ronald Startzel: Marketing 00:16:27 Rebecca Parker: Listen more than you talk. 00:16:27 Beth Chavez: be fun as an eclipse 00:16:34 Joe Dunham: Shut Up 00:16:35 Amber Urbina: shut up 00:16:36 Amber Urbina: lol 00:16:37 Donna Johnson: shut up... lol 00:16:37 Jill Kauffman: Shut up 00:16:37 Loretta Young: Shut Up! 00:16:38 Karen Bowman: shut up and listen 00:16:38 Mary Bibb: Stop talking LOL 00:16:40 Stephen Gallagher: shut up 00:16:41 Jody Fayman: Just Walk Away Renee 00:16:41 Lisa Oliver: Shut up 00:16:41 Jody Lamb: would you shut up! 00:16:42 Donald Farrey: Be quiet!!!! 00:16:43 Jay Hamilton: Ha! I’m one of 5 only children in my family 00:16:44 Tammy Tisdell: shut up and listen 00:16:45 Lesia Ephriam: Listening 00:16:46 Greg Herbert: you have two ears and one mouth... 00:16:48 Joy Wells: Keep your mouth shut 00:16:50 Daniel Reeder: You like the sound of your own voice 00:16:51 Henry Puckett: I have 4 sisters I am not saying anything! LOL! 00:16:51 Diane Workman: Talk to the hand! 00:16:52 James Kinyanjui: Hold your peace 00:16:54 Ronald Startzel: Have you heard of Run DMC? 00:16:57 Jason Roelofs: ... 00:16:57 Clark Roush: yea, shut up! 00:17:02 Joshua King: Silence is your friend 🙂 00:17:03 Peggy Bagby: Yes 00:17:05 Ashlee Richards: none 00:17:05 Connie Wilkinson: yes 00:17:07 Jody Lamb: no one ever learned anything by talking 00:17:08 sybil alden: 👍 00:17:10 Lesia Ephriam: Yes 00:17:12 Kevin Lewis: 👍 00:17:16 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Then you’d be right. 00:17:20 Dorine Scribnerset: problem solver 00:17:21 Ashlee Richards: they solve it. 00:17:23 KARIN MYRON: Les, That is a personal problem 00:17:25 Jeff Weimar: God gave us two ears, one mouth :) 00:17:25 Mark Crader: I'll keep praying for my siblings - :) 00:17:31 Mary Bibb: 🤣 00:17:34 Yesenia Sexto: as an engineer, I need to be a problem solver 00:17:38 Howard Sherman: 2 ears, 1 mouth. listen twice as much as you talk 00:17:43 Connie Wilkinson: in the silence 00:17:45 Beth Chavez: awkward silence is mighty 00:17:45 Mary Bibb: during the long periods of silence.... 00:17:48 Stephen Gallagher: all the time;) 00:17:52 Peggy Bagby: When it seems so easy to fix 00:17:57 Ashlee Richards: when I'm asked my opinion 00:18:01 Kevin Amacker: On my day job, I am expected to be the problem solver. 00:18:02 Amber Urbina: budget date with my husband 00:18:03 Shannan Thomas: A wise old owl sat on an oak. The more he heard, the less he spoke. The less he spoke, the more he heard. Now wasn't that a wise old bird? 00:18:05 KARIN MYRON: I find it difficult when I actually KNOW I know the answer and which is rare 00:18:08 Rose Mery: Problem solver…have had to learn to listen more through many years of experience 00:18:15 Amber Urbina: lol me to tim 00:18:15 Joanne Marin: When I think I have answer! 00:18:16 Michael Lodge: I mediate disputes, my lesson to clients, be silent and listen. Plan your response after you listen. 00:18:24 Gordon Faerber: when the client is silent 00:18:34 Tina Towles: For me it's when the somebody says something that is not factual...it's wrong. I feel the need to correct or set the record straight... 00:18:43 Amber Urbina: omgosh lol credit cards! yikes 00:18:44 Ute Galloway: @Tim Mann😅 I would have never guessed 00:18:49 Amber Urbina: lol 00:18:58 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Oooooooooohhhhhhh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 00:18:59 Deanna Marshall: when i hear a negative comment like "I can't" 00:19:27 Ute Galloway: wow 00:19:29 Lisa Oliver: Good for you Tim. 00:19:44 Lisa Oliver: Know your audience…. 00:19:46 Lynn Loscar: not worth engaging 00:20:04 Shannan Thomas: People don't care how much we know until they know how much we care! 00:20:28 Sandra Koehler: Choose the space and place to contribute input, allow more info to flow from person speaking to fully understand them..... 00:20:49 Joe Dunham: Pick your battles so you can win the war 00:20:52 Ute Galloway: Great job @Tim 00:21:06 Dennis Chappell: @Kevin Lewis...email me dkchappell13@gmail.com. We have a NC coalition of coaches 00:21:14 Mark Crader: hahaha - nicely played Lisa!!! 00:21:14 Dennis Chappell: Good job, TIM! 00:21:27 Melissa Knowles: I give Free Budgeting to a Christian non Profit and struggle with this. I eat, sleep and teach DR and the Organizer is a Anti DR. 00:22:12 Tammy Tisdell: We had a lawyer during a child custody case who almost never spoke. This went on for months, I was getting frustrated until I realized that when he spoke everyone listened, including the Judge. We were able to keep my step kids safe due to the wisdom of our lawyer knowing when to remaining quiet and when to speak! 00:22:14 Denise Konkol: I’d want to hear what exactly it is that makes him/her anti DR 00:22:29 Jody Fayman: A prayer for me, Lord give me the wisdom when to open my mouth and when to keep my mouth shut. 00:22:40 Amber Urbina: aww @tammy thats beautiful 00:22:44 Stephen Gallagher: my grand father would say "Don't speak until spoken to" 00:22:55 KARIN MYRON: Exactly Jody 00:23:05 ostare D: I like that Lisa. 00:23:05 Lynn Loscar: heart of justice 00:23:07 Donna D'Amato: Wow Tammy - thank you for sharing that. That is really powerful. 00:23:10 Kimberly Watt: Enneagram 8's and wing 8's unite! 00:23:26 Denise Konkol: I think it is more than OK to speak up in the face of domestic abuse… our Christian duty imho 00:23:32 Debie Jolley: I have been there for these things personally!! I feel I can effectively coach others through this! If they are in the abused side. 00:23:59 Kevin Lewis: Dennis Chappell are you currently coaching in the triangle area? 00:24:00 Joe Dunham: If you are coaching what would you be getting attacked. 00:24:01 Kevin Amacker: My dad used to say I was a like a "taxi cab" when I was a kid. My mouth and ears were constantly flapping like car doors opening/closing on a taxi cab. 00:24:19 Joshua King: When to step in to defend others or ourselves? Interesting Question 00:24:26 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1 00:24:35 Debie Jolley: If the client is narc, I know how to spot it as well (I’m training in this) it’s okay to dismiss clients and not let ourselves be abused. Like the core values Chris Hogan talked about! It includes this! 00:24:43 KARIN MYRON: Exactly Justin 00:24:53 Mary Bibb: @Lisa -TRUTH 00:25:02 Joshua King: @Justin and @Karin: Agreed 00:25:10 Joshua King: @Lisa: Agreed 00:25:18 Melissa Knowles: There are Christians who think DR is not Christian because of his Wealth. The Organizer has a problem with DR no crap method. 00:25:24 Mary Bibb: @Justin - spot on 00:25:27 Denise Konkol: Success is the best argument/countepoint 00:25:40 KARIN MYRON: Absolutely 00:25:48 Lynn Loscar: oh, no! 00:25:53 Amber Urbina: yes, just convicted of that recently 00:25:53 Genia LaRue: Heard of or experienced? 😬 00:25:56 Michael Lodge: When someone attacks you, don't attack back. Listen very carefully, but you don't have to respond because normally their response will hurt their position. 00:25:56 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: ouch 00:25:58 Stephen Gallagher: I would agree with that Justin 00:25:59 Ashlee Richards: ME!! 00:26:07 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: 1 Peter 2:12 Keep your behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they may [a]because of your good deeds, as they observe them, glorify God on the day of [b]visitation. 00:26:10 ostare D: I tend to do the same as Lisa. Yet, sometimes, narcisstic tendencies turn against us. If a person can't be vulnerable, take responsibility or say it's them them them, then there is no opening. I completed a six month coaching with the client and realized we can't move forward as she keeps breaking her word and refused to do the work. 00:26:12 Ute Galloway: live our principle with our shoulders back, our head held up, and a smile on our faces. For with God behind us, who will dare to stand against us? 00:26:30 David Lahman: Les, you had to bring in the in-laws. Ha Ha 00:26:36 Joshua King: In-Law Rivalry? I never head of it. I have heard of boundaries 🙂 00:26:44 KARIN MYRON: @David LOL 00:26:49 Donna Johnson: Amen... Mother Out Law For 43 year, she has tried to make me her scapegoat. 00:27:01 David Lahman: I’ve dealt with this for 40 years. 😀 00:27:02 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: My mom’s wisdom again: Don’t try to reason with unreasonable people. 00:27:07 Jody Fayman: Talk about someone who has no life. Sadness 00:27:08 Deanna Marshall: set your boundaries with in-laws 00:27:09 Amber Urbina: awww Les... oh my goodness. that's tough 00:27:13 Kevin Lewis: Can't stay long today. Les, I will see you tomorrow for 301 and 401 calls. 00:27:13 Denise Konkol: What a waste of his time…. 00:27:14 Lynn Loscar: time to stay 72 degrees 00:27:17 Joshua King: @Lisa: Another good words of wisdom 🙂 00:27:31 Mark Crader: I think there is a hidden jealousy when it comes to siblings and how they view other siblings 00:27:31 Melissa Knowles: Love this Les!!!! 00:27:32 Mary Bibb: good for him......Keep your thoughts to yourself in that case 00:27:33 Jody Fayman: ME 00:27:38 Amber Urbina: the Bible says to have eyes in your head in doing so you have wisdom 00:27:43 Genia LaRue: I’ve started really trying to focus on how I use the energy God has given me. It’s not effective to use it arguing with someone who’s just looking to argue. 00:27:47 Amber Urbina: way to not release the flood! 00:27:54 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: If ya can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all. 00:27:59 Michael Wilson: So true. And then I get home and lay it all on my spouse! :) 00:28:20 Lisa Oliver: Agree to disagree. 00:28:22 Mary Bibb: hopefully is wasn't too long of a drive 00:28:30 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: That’s the best way to push a nay sayer’s button…live by example. 00:28:32 ostare D: Sometimes I talk too much and I share too much, and think everyone wants my best as much as I want their best. I realized that's not always the case. It's a big lesson as being raised by a pastor, it occurred to me that my dad trusted everyone. I realized it's a story i made up as a kid. The reality, he was just doing his job as a minister. LOL Now it cost me as I tend to open up too much too soon to people I don't know. That cost me a lot. 00:28:44 Diane Workman: I stay silent and in my mind remind myself - You can't fix stupid! 00:28:48 Debie Jolley: Sometimes people get upset because what they need to do to cut back is truly hard! Like Chris Hogan said. It’s not personal, it’s actually the situation they don’t like. However there is a difference with this and a toxic personality constantly arguing with you as a coach and trying to prove you wrong on every thing and prove they be the expert. That is when you cut the relationship short because by nature they just want to argue just to watch you be uncomfortable. It’s actually a thing. 00:29:00 Amber Urbina: wow 00:29:17 Mary Bibb: sometimes my face speaks VOLUMES 🤣 00:29:30 Ute Galloway: sounds like a church in Orlando the Orlando eyesore 00:29:31 Wilda Hinely: Les, sometime you can’t fix stupid. 00:29:35 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: @Mary😆 00:29:38 KARIN MYRON: @Mary YES, my facial expressions always give me away 00:29:41 Karen Decker: Had a father n law for 42years that tried to make everyone as miserable as he was… continued to love him and in his end years I was the one he was closest to.🥰🥰🥰love all, forgive all 00:29:43 Debie Jolley: But yes 80% listen 20% talk. Can you tell I’m rushing to finish the course? It’s fresh in my mind!! 00:30:01 David Lahman: Before DR my wife complained about all the political shows I watched. She laughs now because I now I listen to Dave. 00:30:13 Denise Konkol: That’s a universal tenet: you can’t fix a problem until you admit you have it. 00:30:16 Donna D'Amato: Les, I have a family member like that. 00:30:19 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: @Mary: I read a funny meme once. I wish I could teach my face to use its inside voice. 00:30:20 Tammy Tisdell: Some Will. Some Won't, So What, Someone's waiting! 00:30:31 Joshua King: @Les: Yes. Asking a question is giving permission to speak into their mind 🙂 00:30:36 Char Lee: I've been told I have a bad attitude because I DO NOT speak enough. 00:30:38 Ute Galloway: @Les it is okay you are our Golden Child. Mean it. they could learn from you, but you cannot win them all 00:30:40 Debie Jolley: Silence is Golden!! So well said! 00:30:51 Joshua King: :Edit: When they ask a question, they are giving permission to speak into your mind 🙂 00:30:58 Mary Bibb: @Lisa - meeeee toooooo -unsuccessful so far LOL 00:31:15 Amber Urbina: that's good Tim! 00:31:16 ostare D: I always feel that when people ask me questions I have to answer. the reality I don't. This is another lesson. 00:31:17 Tammy Tisdell: Spot on TIM!! 00:31:32 Sandra Koehler: Avoiding strife vs needing to help or be right... 00:31:39 Mary Bibb: soooo true!!! 00:31:42 Donna Johnson: Exactly Tim... 00:31:43 Greg Herbert: You can only coach someone that wants to be coached 00:31:46 Tammy Tisdell: I just tell myself "That's not my client" 00:31:59 Mary Bibb: having trouble with the hubby on this path..... 00:32:02 Amber Urbina: YES! 00:32:11 Denise Konkol: Protect your bandwidth and your energy. 00:32:15 Amber Urbina: Mary! you and me both! 00:32:20 Deborah Cardin: I think it goes back to that initial consultation. We need to ask the right questions to ensure someone is ready to do the hard work necessary. Sometimes they just aren't ready... 00:32:24 Stephen Gallagher: Mary Bibb, lead by example 00:32:45 Amber Urbina: ohhh! 00:32:51 David Lahman: I don’t defend myself or DR, or my Christian beliefs. But, I’m 66 now and learned to explain myself why and walk away. 00:33:06 ostare D: Not all clients are open to hear about God, so unless if the person is open, talking about God to a person who lives without integrity and self destructive behaviors, tend to retaliate and stop listening. It's very hard for me to practice this as I'm a God's miracle. 00:33:11 Mary Bibb: @Stephen - trying - I was just praying (AGAIN) about that this morning 00:33:18 Amber Urbina: so good Tim!! 00:33:31 Donna D'Amato: Great stuff, Tim! 00:33:31 Mark Crader: let them experience and see things changing in your life and let them ask 00:33:42 Wilda Hinely: Amen Tim 00:34:00 Tyson Anderson: Good reminder thank you Tim 00:34:02 Karen Decker: Amen 00:34:12 Mary Bibb: @amber - let's connect!! DebtFreeIsTheWay2Be@yahoo.com 00:34:17 Denise Konkol: QUESTION: How then are we to embrace conversations to build leads if they aren’t already in “the community?” 00:34:19 Jody Lamb: plant the seed ( live by example, be kind) but don't start pulling weeds 00:34:59 Shannan Thomas: Very well said, Justin! Trying to take on a role in a relationship that this person doesn't want me to take on! 00:35:01 Beth Chavez: Char, i have the same experience. Is it possible it's more of a perspective rather than reality 00:35:03 Tammy Tisdell: @ Jody Lamb, exactly ....love the don't start pulling weeds 00:35:06 Amber Urbina: @Mary I wrote down your info! I'll reach out later today! 00:35:07 Stephen Gallagher: Denise, I am having business card made so that I can give them away and have short conversations 00:35:08 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: @Denise, the conversation can be about what they want life to look like, or what your life has become by following principles, rather than a debate on the principles themselves. 00:35:11 Glenn Foote: I consider this a power struggle between you and the other person. Power struggle of ideas. 00:35:27 Mark Crader: @jody lamb, fantastic, yep exactly!!! 00:35:31 Mary Bibb: @Amber - YAAAYYYY 00:35:42 Jody Fayman: anger 00:35:44 Amber Urbina: @Mary : ) 00:35:45 Glenn Conner: Christianity is both a relationship and a religion. The relationship is how we're saved and stay that way, the religion ("true religion", if you must) is what we do because we are. 00:35:45 Stephen Gallagher: discussion instaed of arguing 00:35:45 Deborah Cardin: Anger 00:35:45 Mary Ellen Burger: Inanger 00:35:46 Jody Lamb: you aren't the gardener until things start growing 00:35:46 Ronald Startzel: fear 00:35:47 Joshua King: Argument - Pride 00:35:47 Kimberly Watt: Hurt and anger 00:35:48 Henry Puckett: Anger 00:35:48 Mark Crader: anger 00:35:49 Tina Towles: frustration 00:35:50 Deanna Marshall: guily 00:35:50 Genia LaRue: anger 00:35:50 Ute Galloway: irritation 00:35:52 Denise Konkol: defensiveness 00:35:53 Mary Bibb: difference of opinion 00:35:53 Donna D'Amato: defensiveness 00:35:53 Sandra Koehler: Need to be right...pride.. 00:35:54 Donald Farrey: confrontation 00:35:54 Daniel Perez: Anger 00:35:54 Lynn Loscar: defensiveness 00:35:54 Cindy Murphy: Fear 00:35:54 Loretta Young: Frustration 00:35:55 Amber Urbina: Fear, anger hurt lonely sad 00:35:55 Tammy Tisdell: Conversation is sharing ideas, Arguement is trying to justify what I believe. 00:35:55 Dennis Chappell: Anger 00:35:55 Natalie Kaibel: anger, frustration 00:35:55 Rebecca Parker: Anger 00:35:57 Rachel DeHaven: anger 00:35:57 Kathy Jaggi: Anxiety 00:35:58 Lisa Oliver: Fight 00:35:58 Howard Sherman: Frustration 00:35:59 Dorine Scribnerset: anger, frustration 00:35:59 Danny O'Very: Guilt 00:36:00 Gloria Carbajal: anger. frustration 00:36:01 Karen Decker: Hate & disrespect 00:36:01 Amber Urbina: fear 00:36:02 Connie Wilkinson: heating up and anger 00:36:04 Kevin Amacker: Protecting territory 00:36:04 Amber Urbina: hurt 00:36:05 Jeff Weimar: accusation 00:36:05 Rose Mery: Anger, frustration 00:36:06 Dorine Scribnerset: Never 00:36:07 Greg Herbert: Nope 00:36:07 Tina Towles: No!! 00:36:07 Donna D'Amato: no! 00:36:08 Joshua King: No 00:36:08 Jody Fayman: Nope 00:36:08 Donald Farrey: no 00:36:08 Mary Bibb: no 00:36:08 Danette Brown: Need to be right 00:36:09 Amber Urbina: yes 00:36:09 Ute Galloway: no 00:36:09 Dennis Chappell: Guilt 00:36:09 Rebecca Parker: No 00:36:11 Glenn Foote: Anger is a secondary emotion. 00:36:11 Henry Puckett: no 00:36:15 Rachel DeHaven: no 00:36:18 Rose Mery: No 00:36:18 Stephen Gallagher: no not at all 00:36:19 Deborah Cardin: No open to coaching.. 00:36:20 Gordon Faerber: devited 00:36:23 Danette Brown: No 00:36:33 Jody Fayman: Lack of control 00:36:37 Kevin Amacker: i want to be guided by God's wisdom, not so much my wisdom. 00:36:44 Sandra Koehler: Those emotions expose spiritual element in the "contention"possibility... 00:36:47 Lynn Loscar: there has to be connection first 00:36:47 Stephen Gallagher: you can defuse an agreement and direct it to a discussion 00:36:50 Jill Kauffman: @Lisa sooo good! 00:36:50 David Lahman: You’re correct Lisa. I really try not to argue anymore. You won’t win in an argument. 00:36:54 Deanna Marshall: set boundries 00:37:06 Stephen Gallagher: through the holy spirit 00:37:18 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Ya punch em in the face! 00:37:26 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Or at least that’s what we want to do 00:37:27 Mark Crader: LOL!!! 00:37:32 Rachel DeHaven: how you react speaks volumes to others 00:37:33 Danny O'Very: Christ drew in the sand...patiently waiting for the "student" to appear. 00:37:39 Jody Lamb: if someone is calling ypu out, they may have the biggest issues 00:37:41 Genia LaRue: My first FPU group had a lady who was sponsored and argued with nearly every principle in the series. 00:37:42 Mary Bibb: @Stephen - "Holy Spirit Come!"" 00:37:42 Stephen Gallagher: defensiveness and make it into a discussion 00:37:46 Joshua King: @Lisa: I would turn the other cheek 🙏 00:37:46 Amber Urbina: checking insides and intentions. Jesus flipped tables lol. I've learned in recovery how to have a healthy anger for good change 00:37:57 Tammy Tisdell: Thanks Lisa, You are so Proverbs 31:26 00:38:06 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: What is the coaches role in conversation? 00:38:11 KARIN MYRON: I concur @Tammy 00:38:13 Ute Galloway: loving sarcasim 00:38:16 Lynn Loscar: entertaining 00:38:17 Joshua King: @Lisa: Guide 00:38:24 Natalie Kaibel: coach is guide 00:38:26 Dorine Scribnerset: Return with a question 00:38:30 Shannan Thomas: "...Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires..." James 1:19-20 00:38:37 Jill Kauffman: To listen to understand the situation 00:38:42 Stephen Gallagher: people who start these argument are VERY insecure in their journey 00:38:48 Mark Crader: Yep, fantastic Tim!! 00:38:55 Amber Urbina: wow nicely expressed 00:39:01 Mary Bibb: TIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RIGHT ON 00:39:07 Glenn Foote: Yes, Stephen Gallagher! 00:39:09 Joshua King: @Tim: Agreed 00:39:15 Tammy Tisdell: I would say nothing or "I'm sorry are you debt free shaming me?" People who want to fit in with the world hate the idea if shaming others! 00:39:21 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: I can get drawn into an argument quickly… self control. 00:39:24 Greg Herbert: "Why do you ask?" 00:39:48 Jody Fayman: We don't need to defend Dave either 00:39:51 Mark Crader: I agree Lisa, and mostly I've found its centered around the other persons insecurity 00:39:52 Lisa Oliver: To each their own. 00:39:56 Karen Decker: 💯 Tim 00:40:10 Joshua King: (Typing this with a kind tone) A question to someone What causes you to feel angry? 00:40:13 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: A tell tell sign when we are defending our statement, opinion, action is when we use the word because. 00:40:17 Amber Urbina: self control for sure 00:40:22 ostare D: well said 00:40:23 Austin Garcia: So much wisdom coming from Tim right now. 00:40:24 David Lahman: Amen Tim 00:40:37 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Keep it zipped! 00:40:39 Mary Bibb: always love the wisdom,Tim 00:40:45 Danette Brown: Love that Tim 00:40:47 Debie Jolley: “You win every fight you are not apart of! “ Love this! 00:41:05 Ute Galloway: what like the favorite of society: How are you, and then they walk away without waiting for the answer? 00:41:14 Deborah Cardin: Wait time is so important. Allow them time to think. 00:41:19 Karyn Pennington: Most people are uncomfortable with silence and will fill the void 00:41:33 Amber Urbina: power in the pause 00:41:34 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: Thanks for the kind words, friends! 00:41:48 Mark Crader: That is a great point Justin, many, many times, I observe people in meetings, wait for the quick responses, evaluate what is being discussed, then, I typically get called on for my thoughts 00:41:51 Yesenia Sexto: awkward silences are good 00:41:53 Mary Bibb: Truth, Justin! 00:41:56 Gordon Faerber: If someone does like Dave Ramsey, then they are not to follow his path! 00:41:58 Joshua King: @Tim 🙂 00:42:04 Joshua King: @Justin: Great point Justin 00:42:09 Sarah van Akkeren: Wow - I appreciate that, Justin! 00:42:09 Tammy Tisdell: I was teaching 5th grade religion class, I felt uncomfortable with the silence when not one of them answered....until one boy answered with so much wisdom I knew he was truly thinking over the question. 00:42:17 Kevin Amacker: Good reminder Justin. 00:42:19 Stephen Gallagher: Sen Su Art of war, use your enemy's energy against them.... re word their question to your benefits 00:42:36 Amber Urbina: if you aren't able to sit in silence maybe ask yourself why, silence lets the other respond, think, and sit with their stuff 00:42:50 Tammy Tisdell: Never Split the Difference! 00:43:11 Henry Puckett: Silence is power! 00:43:21 Tammy Tisdell: @ Amber Urbina so much wisdom!! 00:43:29 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: @Tammy, that’s Chris Voss, FBI Negotiator. This was Frank Runnels (I think was his last name) who was an FBI Interrogator. 00:43:29 Michael Lodge: Silence is vital. You get more of the story through silence. I use it in mediation daily. 00:43:39 Sandra Koehler: I believe while holding silence body language of coach is important showing relaxed anticipation supporting client for their benefit.... 00:43:59 Joshua King: @Tim: I have heard of Chris Voss on an older Entreleadership podcast episode 🙂 00:44:01 Claudia Johnson: That is what I did for three years also interrogations. I learned micro-expressions. Learning to read non verbal communication is coupled with silence. 00:44:06 Tammy Tisdell: Thanks Tim, does Frank Runnels have any books? 00:44:17 Amber Urbina: @Tammy <3 I've been in therapy and recovery since 2018 00:44:22 Connie Wilkinson: that is real good Les Thanks 00:44:30 Amber Urbina: yes Tim! 00:44:50 Genia LaRue: Silence makes us feel vulnerable. Like when scripture tells us to be still but how many do……… 00:44:58 Mary Bibb: y'all!! SOOOOO much wisdom here! 00:45:00 Tammy Tisdell: @ Amber Urbina, clearly you are doing well! So proud of you!! 00:45:04 Joshua King: Silence can be awkward, but necessary to hear the other person 🙂 00:45:04 Jody Fayman: Is it possibly a control issue? 00:45:08 Debie Jolley: Yes. Sit and wait. So they can think! 00:45:16 Sandra Koehler: In our culture silence is not valued, we are bombarded constantly with info, noise, external stimulation...silence invites going within.... 00:45:37 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Frank does have a book. Lies People Tell 00:45:39 Genia LaRue: @Sandra, we’re expected to answer, to know! 00:45:42 Claudia Johnson: Understanding their non verbal communication and reading their body language. Sometimes we make people uncomfortable. I normally gauge communication by nonverbal 00:45:47 Amber Urbina: our opinion being the "smasher" 00:45:50 Mary Bibb: so what do you do with your eyes? Yo don't want to stare at them, do you? 00:46:10 Tammy Tisdell: @ Tim Mann "You asked a question that caused someone to think" so great!!...and isn't that our goal?! 00:46:25 Karyn Pennington: Then, commercial break . . . lol 00:46:26 Claudia Johnson: Mary Bibb, we wait look at our notes and take notes on our question 00:46:27 Ute Galloway: @Mary Bibb, with loving, carrying eyes. 00:46:43 Donna D'Amato: Thank you, Les, Tim, and Amber! So much to think about. 00:46:45 Debie Jolley: I think we want to “recue” them from the uncomfortable feeling our culture has taught us shouldn’t happen -“silence “ for more than a few seconds. We are “recusing” them from the silence. But this wrong! So much better when we learn patience ! 00:46:46 Amber Urbina: @Mary maybe look at the floor or what ever is in front of you 00:46:57 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: @Mary, what’s wrong with trying to really see your clients? 00:46:58 Michael Lodge: Silence and good questions always gets you to where you need to be with the client. Columbo was a great asker of questions. 00:47:18 Ute Galloway: @Tim, not a thing 00:47:29 Amber Urbina: so good! 00:47:30 Joanne Marin: As missionaries in a non western culture my husband and I learned early in communication to be confortable with silence. We have learned so much by understanding this alone. 00:47:39 Lisa Oliver: Holding space is a gift. A gift that helps them find their answers within themselves. 00:48:40 Amber Urbina: Lisa, showing them honor in that way! 00:49:13 Amber Urbina: amen <3 00:49:17 Debie Jolley: Amen Lisa!! It’s not a battle of the wits! 00:49:18 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Create WIN-WIN 👏🏽👏🏽 00:49:40 Jody Fayman: When you start arguing with someone, you shut the door to positive communication 00:49:42 Deborah Cardin: If they are insistent, then I may need more information about their situation. I would ask them to tell me more about their perspective of the situatin. 00:49:43 Danette Brown: Love these points Lisa! 00:49:51 KARIN MYRON: WIsh I could stay but have to get back to work. Will watch the playback alter...Great TALK 00:50:00 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: 💯 00:50:20 Justin Weaver, Ramsey Coaching Team: Approach each conversation as if there is something to learn from your conversation partner! 00:50:21 Debie Jolley: As therapist we are taught to let others have autonomy! Respect their point of view and ask ask ask more questions to understand feelings and thoughts and situation. Chances are we aren’t understanding them if we are arguing! 00:50:29 Connie Clower: You only reach people through building a relationship & caring about them. 00:50:33 BJ Lange: Lisa - love your kindness and wisdom 00:50:44 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Earning the respect of those you desire to “help” is 💯 00:50:45 Jody Fayman: It might be your job is to plant the seed 00:50:55 Missy White: I took notes!! 00:50:56 David Lahman: Ya boy Lisa 00:51:02 ostare D: I wonder your opinion. I dealt with a client that likes to drink, and get high and she has a daughter. She said her daughter was a problem since she was 2 years old, her mother in law is a problem, her brother isn't living the way she wants even though he is an adult...I set with the child and found out that the child can't focus and she said her mom is too controlling and jealous of her...I worked six months with the mom and the child. She ended by disappearing from the coaching after I had her see that she is caught in a vicious cycle, and that her daughter probably said things to piss her off. ...etc. my assessment is this client is not ready to let go of her ways, she is offended by God, offended by people who don't drink...etc. So I saw no place to continue the interactions as she started invading my privacy as well, asking me to go on parties and drink with her,,,etc. I decided to cut her off from my life. Anyone ever dealt with people who appear so great then flip over night? 00:51:12 Debie Jolley: Those convinced against their will are of the same opinion still! Posting to remember! 00:51:26 Howard Sherman: Debatable. 00:51:45 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: The empathy Tim. I think a conversation seeking to understand will grow empathy. 00:51:56 Donna Johnson: so true... 00:52:21 Claudia Johnson: Ostare D, 00:52:36 Amber Urbina: yes 00:52:40 Claudia Johnson: Ostare, normally i evaluate within the first ten minutes 00:52:47 Greg Herbert: You can try to make understanding WHY the other person has the opposing viewpoint the goal of your conversation. Then you can decide if or how to continue with the conversation. 00:52:55 Joshua King: @Tim: Agreed. We are Guides, not heroes. Our clients becomes heroes in their story, but handle with grace 🙂 00:52:56 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Not everyone is READY to be coached and coaches may need to walk away before it gets ugly 00:53:01 Jeff Weimar: For thought... "Mehrabian's 7-38-55 Rule: 7% of communication is conveyed by words, 38% by tone of voice, and 55% comes through body language." True and not so true based on the context, lots of research on this including I've seen 83% of communication is body language. Regardless, the point is understanding emotional intelligence, and "silence" in discussions is a large part of that. 00:53:02 Connie Clower: We need to meet folks where they are to help them move forward. We cannot expect them to come up to meet us where we are. They may not be able. 00:53:08 David Lahman: I’m not a therapist. I’m a coach. The therapy belongs to a professional. 00:53:23 ostare D: if they know what they are doing, its better not to say anything? not everyone is committed to growth.... 00:53:25 Claudia Johnson: Ostare, sometimes you will not be the right fight and that should be figured out by your gut intuition. Just like a date 00:53:31 michael Reed: This speaks loud to how we need to listen better and speak lest 00:53:46 Denise Konkol: Ostare - you did all you could; it sounds like you just parted ways; when the student is ready the teacher will appear. 00:53:48 Tyson Anderson: When asking questions what is the best way you guys have found to take notes and still listen? Does it just come with practice? 00:53:50 Mary Bibb: @Tim - sorry - my middle child came in ...I don't want to make someone uncomfortable with silenced AND me staring..... 00:53:51 Debie Jolley: Yes Ostare! You did right to cut off true coaching relationship. It was crossing personal core values and inappropriate. Sounds like a toxic person who “can’t” see anyone is right and they are never wrong. Your can’t work with that type. It’s so frustrating. Dealt with this for. 20+ yrs. 00:54:01 Sandra Koehler: We have to discern when we cannot "save a person from themselves"..... 00:54:08 David Lahman: Mere too 00:54:14 David Lahman: Me too 00:54:15 ostare D: Oh Man Claudia, I never figure out the dating yet lol. Yes I appreciate that, and I just know some are committed to growth and some are committed to their agendas. 00:54:16 Claudia Johnson: Ostare, if you communicate thta the meetings and your time is valuable, then make sure no one takes advantage of your personal time. 00:54:21 Amber Urbina: how do I respond to their stuff even negative stuff. self-control, prayer, careful use of language 00:54:24 Claudia Johnson: *that 00:54:30 Ute Galloway: Well the first things is NOT to say: I told you so! Sometimes people are visual learners. 00:54:34 Jody Fayman: It's about taking responsibility for one's own action 00:54:38 Connie Wilkinson: they are going to feel it not me. 00:54:52 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Boom! They may not realize there is something to be fixed. 00:54:55 Howard Sherman: If suicide enters the conversation all bets are off. I'm not a coach anymore. I'm a rescuer saving a life. 00:55:01 Donna Martinez: We can empathize with the fact that based on what they are seeing in our culture, they are doing fine. I try to plant seeds for them to consider when they are ready 00:55:05 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: And who am I to think they are broken in the first place. 00:55:08 Amber Urbina: don't give solicited advice 00:55:11 Dorine Scribnerset: Time for more questions. 00:55:22 Jody Fayman: Impulse buying usually has an underlining issue 00:55:40 Amber Urbina: @Lisa that's deep girl yes, Im an equal 00:55:45 ostare D: Debbie, you said it exactly right. It was heart breaking as I really wanted to help the girl but it's impossible with the mom that is like that. She did cross major boundaries. Thank you 00:55:49 David Lahman: I agree Les. I have three young grandkids. 00:56:03 Beth Chavez: some people dont say anything with their words, but too much with their face, body language, attitude 00:56:23 Greg Herbert: Father knows best 00:56:27 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Now you’re stepping on toes! 00:56:30 Mark Crader: I agree Les with my nieces and nephews...maintaining boundaries is a key 00:56:33 Amber Urbina: lol wow 00:56:34 David Lahman: We parented our children. Their parents need to do it not me. 00:56:34 Greg Herbert: Grandpa buys icecream 00:56:41 Joshua King: Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud 🙂 00:56:49 Justin Weaver, Ramsey Coaching Team: “Silence is a manifestation of mature boundaries.” - Les Nienow 00:56:53 Denise Konkol: Spare the rod, spoil the child 00:56:54 David Lahman: Ice cream always works 00:57:02 Joshua King: @Justin: Great quote 🙂 00:57:04 Danette Brown: Goes back to putting ourselves in roles we were not asked to be in 00:57:18 Genia LaRue: Thanks, Justin, for reiterating that profound quote. 00:57:19 Ute Galloway: There is nothing new under the sun, besides technology 00:57:20 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: For all first timers, Les and I have a great bond, that’s largely displayed by insults between he and I. Don’t send hatemail. 00:57:21 Sandra Koehler: God created us with free will agency, and yes as Les is speaking being knowing our place of authority....and operating from that place. 00:57:21 Jody Fayman: I do a lot of praying on that issue Les. 00:57:34 sybil alden: ask them how their decision will help their direction they are going 00:57:42 Deanna Marshall: yes Les 00:57:42 Genia LaRue: I just realized everyone’s name says Ramsey Coaching Team except Les. He’s in a league of his own! 00:57:45 Karyn Pennington: My step-daughter passed away and dad is no where on the scene. We, as grandparents, parent every weekend and it's much different than the other Grandma who parents M-Th. 00:58:06 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: @Genia 🤪 00:58:24 Joy Wells: As a grandmother of 11, I have holes in my tongue from biting it! 00:58:27 Mickael White: You can raise your kids or you can raise your grandkids. 00:58:29 Amber Urbina: I love what you said. you said your approachable in your silence 00:58:46 Genia LaRue: @Mickael!!!!!!! 00:58:50 Joshua King: A question can be an invitation to speak 🙂 00:58:54 David Lahman: Kids need to learn boundaries so when they get older the adult understands the value of boundaries. 00:59:03 ostare D: Howard Sherman, Suicide sometimes is caused simply because of a social disconnect. We live in a society that is difficult to connect at an authentic level, and sometimes it's simply hormonal or lack of blood flow to the brain,...believe it or not, physical health impacts mental health. So, these two types of situation can be turned around very quick. I have dealt with kids that had both of these and quite a success to helping them. Now, there are other types that can cause a real threat and so I think an assessment of what the person is dealing with is important. 00:59:14 Jody Fayman: I text my kids "I'm praying for you My Love" 00:59:16 Claudia Johnson: Les, I heard from a little bird you were talking about retiring in the next few years or sooner? True or fake news? 00:59:58 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: @ostare, I think what he was saying is that when suicide is on the table, everything changes. The priority becomes getting the necessary help to save a life, and everything else can wait. 01:00:00 Genia LaRue: @Claudia, Tim would implode without Les to harass. 01:00:13 Ute Galloway: 😅 01:00:15 Jody Lamb: we can be the titanic, only seeing the tip of the iceberg 01:00:18 Tim Mann - Ramsey Coaching Team: @Claudia, Les can retire when I do. 01:00:36 ostare D: Claudia, I got it now. Somehow I understood that there is nothing he can do. lol 01:00:41 Les Nienow: I can tell you this Claudia. I’m closer to retirement today than I was yesterday. 🙂 01:00:42 David Lahman: ❤️ 01:00:55 Genia LaRue: @Les, classy response! 01:01:19 Ute Galloway: not a lot of talking with a helping hand when needed 01:01:25 Jeff Weimar: @Beth Chavez - agreed, I've read up to 83% of communication is body language 01:01:37 Claudia Johnson: Ostare, I actually am finalizing my research on suicide in my masters program for lmft. Suicide has many aspects and it boils down to lack of support. I do not believe it is a mental health issue. Sometimes people need someone and there is no one and the isolation pushes people to push to that. 01:01:37 David Lahman: 😀 01:01:41 Mary Bibb: @Ute! YES 01:01:51 Joshua King: Our potential prospects are overwhelmed with fear 01:01:53 Genia LaRue: Lord, help me… adult children... 01:02:29 Julia Haller: Hmm I don’t know what is right or wrong for anyone. I know what works for me based on my personal experiences. Someone using a credit card or loosing a million dollars might need to have that experience for them to even consider making different choices. To seek council. And when they are ready to move in a direction that I can support, then I am all in. Yes! 01:02:53 Jody Fayman: It reminds me of how God is watching us make a bad decision. He knows it won't end well but allows us to make the decision. The amazing thing is He will be there when the consequences happen. 01:02:59 Genia LaRue: @Julia, what is going to be the catalyst of change for each individual? 01:03:12 Amber Urbina: yes 01:03:28 Mary Bibb: @Jody -and SOMETIMES He's giggling.... 01:03:32 Joshua King: Switch shoes with the other person 01:03:40 Jody Fayman: @Mary so true 01:03:40 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: WISDOM 01:04:05 Shannan Thomas: Lisa: "Its bold to approach people with a compassionate heart." 01:04:13 Amber Urbina: to the core I really have nothing to offer someone besides christ 01:04:39 ostare D: Claudia I am so happy to know that you are covering that side of suicide. I don't know you but I love what you are doing and writing. I have myself went through that as a teenager and after a major traumatic head injury and helped other people as well who faced that. Then, life changed when I got my blood to circulate, and had love from people. Great work Claudia. 01:04:46 Ute Galloway: We all need to grow, it is a life long journey 01:04:51 Mark Crader: Just listen, the power of listening is so often overlooked 01:05:04 Amber Urbina: tacos! I love tacos 01:05:08 Joshua King: @Tim: 🙏 🙏 🙏 01:05:12 Greg Herbert: Learning to be empathetic has been my second biggest challenge... right below believing that people are willing to pay for the advice I have been willing to give freely for years. 01:05:21 Mary Bibb: Tofu tacos for me.....LOL 01:05:24 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Tacos make everyones heart smile. 01:05:31 Amber Urbina: awwww 01:05:41 Joshua King: @Lisa: 🙂 01:05:50 Tammy Tisdell: When we meet Christ face to face no words will be needed. 01:06:17 Les Nienow: Amen Tammy 01:06:19 Mary Bibb: @Tammy so wise! 01:06:27 Joshua King: @Tim: Let them grief in silence 🙏 01:06:27 Sandra Koehler: Let your heart not your outh speak.... 01:06:36 Sandra Koehler: mouth... 01:06:42 Justin Weaver, Ramsey Coaching Team: Now I’m hungry... 01:06:42 Amber Urbina: I want tacos now 01:06:49 Amber Urbina: tacos on you tim 01:06:52 Ute Galloway: The best part of Job is when God is schooling Job, Where were you 01:06:54 Tammy Tisdell: It is better to remain silent and have people think you are unwise than to open your mouth and confirm it! 01:07:01 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Les makes the best nachos! 01:07:04 Karyn Pennington: I'm a licensed massage therapist ... interestingly the "therapist" part is a big part of it. . . people feel the need to share things with me that I'm not sure I understand, but I assure them they are in a safe place and let them vent/unload 01:07:06 Mary Bibb: will there be tacos at Enrichment? 01:07:16 Tammy Tisdell: We are having taco boats for lunch! 01:07:17 Lisa Barber, Ramsey Coaching Team: Good question Mary! 01:07:18 Donald Farrey: thanks everyone 01:07:20 Joshua King: Great Topic Executive Coaches 🙂 01:07:24 Justin Weaver, Ramsey Coaching Team: There should be Mary! 01:07:25 Angela Allen: Great topic today. Thank You! 01:07:27 Amber Urbina: thank you so much! try 5 min! 01:07:28 Greg Herbert: Thank you! 01:07:31 Nadine Prendergast-Cato: Thank you for your wisdom and time 🙏🏽💐 01:07:32 Denise Konkol: Need to run…thanks coaches. I feel better about (re)starting my coaching journey. 01:07:32 Donna D'Amato: This was so helpful! Really brought it all to life for me. Thank you! 01:07:33 Jody Fayman: Recipe please Les. You can email it. 01:07:34 Connie Wilkinson: Thank you 01:07:36 Loretta Young: Thank you! 01:07:39 Sonja Deming: thank you 01:07:41 Danette Brown: You have the right to be silent - Exercise it :) 01:07:41 Dorine Scribnerset: Thank you. Great thoughts! 01:07:42 Rochelle Hatch: thank you, I needed this, especially dealing with adult children 😂 01:07:42 Jackie Whittington: Thanks all 01:07:43 Rachel DeHaven: thank you so much! 01:07:43 Dennis Chappell: Thank you! 01:07:43 Tina Towles: Thank you! 01:07:44 Joshua King: I cannot wait for the next one 🙂 01:07:45 Beth Chavez: thank you team 01:07:45 Deborah Cardin: Thank you so much!